Everything in my life has changed so much for the better I'm positive that I am going to be the best I can from now on. 
Since leaving my boyfriend, I have gained so much confidence just from being on my own and now it seems the things that were worrying me before just don't have any importance anymore.  Your circles of concern have helped me no end and I use it whenever I feel worried about anything.  I have made so many changes recently: job, moving home, love life!  I'm sure in the past I would have had a nervous breakdown, but now I just feel excited at what lies ahead for me.
Thank you so much for all your help and guidance, it has been invaluable and I feel I now have the tools I need to control my fears and make the most of my life.
Claire B


I just wanted to say a big thank you for helping me through this difficult time and how much it is appreciated. You have made me aware of the strength I have within.
Donna T


Thanking you once again for all the support you have given me, and building me up to complete my journey. 
Best wishes



Separation and divorce coaching and counselling

Sometimes we are in relationships that can be improved or perhaps we need to move on, leading to separation and divorce and eventually starting afresh. If you or your partner feel you have reached the end of your relationship, your marriage breakdown then divorce counselling will help you through it, and in your own time to accept it and take steps to rebuild a successful life for yourself.

Now, imagine the benefits of having someone like myself to support you and relate to you, a trained person who can understand the whole picture and who will listen without judgment. You will be in an environment where you feel safe to reveal your thoughts, feelings and fears knowing it is all totally confidential. And on top of those benefits, help from a relationship coach and counsellor who is also trained to teach you ways to make positive improvements to yourself and your life.

These days enlightened lawyers and law practices work with relationship coaches and counselors to ensure the best help for their clients and I am the coach of choice for many law practices. I am one of only 19 affiliate members with Resolution and one of 11 approved coaches with the Collaborative Family Law Association, both of which are professional associations for family law.

Please contact me on 023 8081 2758 for details of divorce coaching sessions throughout Southampton, Bournemouth, salisbury, Hampshire, Dorset, Wiltshire and the New Forest.  If you are further afield we can work by telephone and email.  Find out today about the results you can enjoy.

Relationship coaching and counselling will help you through separation, divorce and out the other side.

  • I am not sure where to get independant unbiased help.
  • Who can I relate to?
  • I am frightened by all the horror stories I hear.  
  • I a worried about costs spiralling.
  • I am concerned that we could run up huge bills fighting each other.
  • I don't have anyone to listen and understand me, to help you find your way through the nightmare of emotions?
  • I am worried about what decisions to make.
  • I am not sure of what instructions I will need to give my lawyer.

While your lawyer gets on with the legal aspects, allow me to help you deal with the emotional issues related to divorce and seraration and the trepidation involved in the whole process.


I will happily liase with you lawyer following your instructions, or if you don't already have one, help you find the right lawyer for you.

Some of the issues that divorce coaching will help you with.

Whether it is you or your spouse that has chosen the divorce, it is still an incredibly painful experience and the relationship help I offer will ease the burden and help you carve out a future path.

  • My Husband or wife wants a separation or divorce and I feel left behind.
  • My spouse has sprung the news of a divorce or separation on me and I am struggling to come to terms with it and find any acceptance of the situation.
  • I want help with how to help my children.
  • They have been unfaithful and I feel angry and worthless
  • You have been unfaithful and are struggling with the outcome and the guilt
  • I want to learn to accept what I can't change and use my learnings for a new and happier life.


The Relationship help, guidance and advice I will bring you

  • Help you work out the choices you have and which you pick,  during the divorce process and in your future life
  • Enable you to focus on your needs, so that you can attend legal meetings fully prepared and able to clearly explain what you want
  • Change how you are affected by the whole painful process of splitting up and reduce the damage, so you can move forward more successfully as we plan for your future.

I will help you through the stress of your divorce, putting you in charge of the confusing muddle of emotions that you experience and enabling you to feel calmer and more in control. 
With my training and experience, you can move forward to create the new life you desire. 

The skillset I bring you to help with your relationship breakup

I have been a full time practitioner and therapist since 1990 helping my clients to get through difficult times, make the improvements they want and achieve the goals they set. In those years I have gained a wealth of knowledge and experience which I add to the wide range of modalities I offer you. I will use a combination of my skills to create a bespoke programme tou suit your individual needs. These skills are coaching, counseling, Neuro-Lingiustic programming, Time-Based techniques, EMDR, hypnotherapy and Reiki.








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